Intimacy Coaching

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Relationships are not easy especially when there are so many unexpected and uncontrollable interferences. Together, we can work on how to set self-care boundaries and enforce them.  It is also important to seek awareness of unhealthy patterns in relationships. Gestalt techniques can be beneficial in drawing out awareness of the here and now which can show the client that the pattern may be part of an old attachment rather than a reflection of who they are today. 

Many times, ruined relationships are just under a hostage takeover by a lack of effective communication.  Couples will cite loss of sex, loss of time, and loss of money but the culprit that we the people in this country find the most challenging is effective communication.  My entire life has been spent learning how to get to a communicated "yes".  For that reason, I have directed the focus of my entire education on effective communication and now I can coach my clients with what I have gained. 

This is a concern for anyone leaving a long-term marriage or relationship.  In some cases, adults that have made an extreme body transformation need some coaching on social interactions with the opposite sex.  

This involves some of the verbal coaching first and then when comfort and trust is built, we can move into social situations to practice in a variety of scenarios that may come up which will give the client some power to manage the way they approach possible reactions.